"Discover the HAPPI Marriage Method — end the same fights, repair emotional connection, and build a marriage where you feel more like yourself, not less."

If you are exhausted from walking on eggshells, trapped in a recurring negative communication loop, or quietly becoming roommates—you are not failing your relationship. You are simply running an unconscious pattern that nobody ever taught you how to break.

The HAPPI Marriage Live Cohort

An 8 week live ZOOM call. In this group call we will explore your patterns as a couple, how to break it, and we will have a live Q&A. This call is meant to enhance and assist couples with implementing the HAPPI Relationship Model which is based on 16 years of marriage, 13 years working with couples, and advanced training in trauma (EMDR) and both top peer reviewed marriage models (EFT and Gottman). Included is the full self-paced course!

$997.00 USD

The HAPPI Relationship Course

A self paced marriage course. In this course you will learn the 5 things that can kill a relationship, the 5 things that build it up, and the 5 things that can block you from the marriage you want. This course is based on 16 years of marriage, 13 years working with couples, and advanced trainings in trauma and the gold standard of marriage models (EFT, and Gottman). Included are guided worksheets and videos.

$259.00 USD

The Cycle is the Enemy (Not Your Partner)

When relationship distress escalates, it is normal to view your partner as the problem. But attachment science reveals a different truth: your conflict is driven by a predictable, self-protective dance.

The more one partner demands or micro-manages to find closeness, the more the other partner withdraws, dismisses, or shuts down to protect the peace.

This is your cycle. And you cannot communicate your way out of a nervous system threat.

Standard relationship advice tells you to "be more patient" or "use I-statements". But when you are tired at 10:00 PM, those surface-level tools break down. To create permanent transformation, you need a repeatable process that addresses the root cause.

Going Beneath the Surface: The Framework

Created by a licensed therapist with 13 years of clinical experience, advanced trainings in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), The Gottman Method, and EMDR, this system maps out the exact process to repair your emotional connection.

The 5 Killers: The surface-level destructive behaviors destroying your emotional connection.
The 5 Builders: The tactical communication actions that actively restore safety and peace.
The 5 Hidden Blocks: The deep, underlying barriers—including past trauma, attachment injuries, and nervous system flooding—that quietly sabotage your best intentions.

Inside this system, I don't just hand you surface scripts. We will work to dismantle the active internal blocks so your nervous system feels safe enough to naturally choose connection over protection in your marriage.

Secure Your Enrollment for the Upcoming October Cohort!

Our live cohort officially kick off Thursday night, October 1st, at 7:30 PM - 9PM Central Time, wrapping up on November 19th.

Guided 8 week transformation experience
$997 USD (Special Founding Members Rate) or 2 payments of $550 Standard rate $1,500
Everything in the Standalone Course: Instant, lifetime access to the full video library and premium printable workbooks.
8 Weeks of Live Integration: Join Tyler live on Zoom every Thursday night at 7:30- 9 PM Central for intensive pattern troubleshooting.
Protected Group Environment: Access to open Q&A where you can drop questions in chat, unmute, or workshop sheets live.
Strict Roster Cap: Limited strictly to the first 15 couples for this inaugural founding group.

Join the Cohort!

Not quite ready for the live cohort experience?

If you have a chaotic calendar, want to go at your own pace entirely in private, or want to test the frameworks before joining a live group, you can start with our Self-Paced Course for just $249.

You will get immediate access to all the core video curriculum modules and premium worksheets tonight. If you choose to upgrade to a live cohort later when our next block opens up, we will apply 100% of your course purchase price as a credit toward your live cohort ticket.

Get Instant Access to the Self-Paced Course for $259

Here is what couples who have been through my program say!

"The marriage class that my husband and I did with Tyler and Jamie was SO helpful to us as we were navigating some hard conversations. We were just starting to ask for help with some deep, hard issues that had been neglected for most of our marriage. Their marriage class was an extremely safe place for us to be vulnerable and honest. Even more so, their listening ears and helpful feedback encouraged us and motivated us to keep going in our marriage journey. I will forever remember those sweet nights with them and am eternally grateful for their wisdom!" -Kelsey

"Tyler helped me speak the language of the heart instead of just speaking the language of logic. Tyler was gentle and understanding but also firm and direct when needed." -JR

"My wife and I got a ton of value out of this marriage class. I really looked forward to joining this class each week. It didn't feel like "marriage counseling" but more like a very useful tool to improve communication skills. I would encourage other men I know to take this class, it is worth the time invested 100%." - Alex

"This course greatly strengthened our communication, bringing us closer together and positively impacting so many areas of our daily life and how we interact with our children, the overall tone of our home, and our intimacy as a couple." -Jessie

“This group has absolutely done wonders for our marriage and our friendship. We have learned so many applicable skills and techniques for handling tough situations and real life relationship challenges. Doing this group will make a huge impact on your relationship and bring a healthy connection between you and your spouse… and we had fun!” JP

Disclaimer: The HAPPI Relationship Model™ is an educational relationship coaching program owned and operated by The HAPPI Relationship LLC. Tyler Stacy operates strictly as an educator and relationship coach within these online programs; this content and the associated group containers do not constitute clinical psychotherapy, mental health diagnosis, or medical treatment.